I disagree. Fetishes were built off of racist stereotypes portrayed by western media and should not be the main contributor to asian attractiveness in the west. It paints a picture that Asians aren't attractive enough for "real" relationships with westerners in the west and that they are better off being a coddle partner, or friend. When you think about asian male fetishes, how often do those fetishes get asian males laid? What are those great asian male fetishes that "sexually attracts" western females? As compared to the bbc fetish? You're defending your friends asian female fetishes, yet you forget that he is a white man and his image is valued much higher than asian men in the west. He has no negative stereotype against him in the dating game. His race and gender alone can get him laid with as many non-white females as he want. Can you say the same for asian men though? Probably not because our negative stereotypes far outweighs any fetishes that will actually get us past 1st, or 2nd base.

In regards to fetishes, sure every race has their fetish, but if so, why are asian men and black women more likely to date within their own race? I doubt that they all choose to date within their race. I'm all for amxf relationships, but I seriously doubt there is any actual "real" attraction.