FINAL UPDATE: My gf (27) is pregnant and I (25) don't want kids.

Did you even read the post? Guy clearly not a "most peeople".

I was a second and "planned" child. My dad wanted a son, but from 26 years of my life the only influence i got from him is the habit to spend the most of day at computer. He never taught me how to hammer in nails, stand up for myself or what it means to be a man. I was fed, dressed and slept in warm bed, i give him that, but never in my life i felt that my dad was wanted me in his life. I wasn't stranger to him, more like a familiar part of the decor. Whenever i tried to help him with his doings he "tolerated" me for some time, and then send me back minding my own business, because "he will do it better and faster anyway".

My mom raised me well, but a child need an influence from both parents. Of both worlds. I'm a half of a man because my dad was not among most people, and i wouldn't wish anyone to experience such life. I believe it's better to never know your father, then living with one who never wanted you from the beginning.

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