Finally asked my crush out and got rejected.

It happened to me a bit like this too. Just like it's normal to ask someone on date or telling you like her. I discussed this with her after I felt bad and awkard at work with her and wanted to clarify the situation. She didn't see any problem and in fact felt good to be asked on date. She just didn't want to date coworker anymore cause it ended bad and then she had to work with her ex-husband... Just act like normal, you did nothing wrong and it's normal to ask people on date. What will make it wrong is if you act like you did something wrong. Just act normal, she said no and you are just coworkers like before except you now don't expect anything more. If she is adult she will act normal too. If she is little girl that wanted to play you, also act normal and if she try to play or seduce or make sign again, just ignore her with class. You are not annoyed by the situation and her rejection, you stay yourself and know there is other women. You asked à women on date, it happen every second in this world and that's what people do. We make it weird when we think and act like it is. But yeah try to avoid coworkers to date, unless you really like her and know her very very well. I have friends who are married with coworker, so it can work, just be very carefull.

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