First of all, you’re so important to this planet. Please never think that you shouldn’t exist, because you most certainly should. You are so unbelievably important. Let that sink in, please.
Also, I feel the exact same way. I alway just thought I was weird until I discovered that there’s people who really do think like me. That’s when I stopped thinking I was alone, and just started connecting with my people.
But it’s not just INFJ’s that I connect with. I have so many interests and I connect with different people all over the world on each of those specific interests.
You are not alone. Know that. There’s a lot of us, and let me tell you, as a woman in her mid-40’s who used to feel the way you do when I was your age, it all really does get better. ❤️