Financially supporting ex’s child

All that’s going to happen is your ex is going to say “I’ve blocked you, made it clear I want nothing to do with you, stop sending me money”. She is the parent, she manages the household income and that is all there is to it. You know nothing about her situation anymore, and it is none of your business.

You can’t even keep your opinions straight in this thread- on one hand you say:

I know she will be fine without me, the mother is very resourceful, and knows how to look after herself, and her kids by proxy, but that does not mean that she will have an easy life.

And on the other you say:

I don’t trust my ex with money, and although I know she is not going to let the kid go starving, I also know about her incapability of managing finances and using money that she should be spending in bills on something completely unrelated or even give them to somebody else -i.e. her family abroad.

Whichever it is, it is not your business. Not “not my circus not my monkeys” but just straight up “none of your business”. Move on and leave your ex alone as she clearly desires.

/r/AskWomenOver30 Thread