Finding breakup support can really suck when you're a guy sometimes

The main reason the workout comment annoys me is the fact that I already do workout. A lot.

I regularly weight train and surf. The problem is my body is incapable of growing. I weigh 125 pounds and can squat over 2x my body weight and deadlift over 3x. I eat around 4k-5k calories a day and never gain any weight. So people look at me and think im some weak scrawny little twig when its like nah... I can literally pick you up and throw you across the room.

So being told repeatedly to workout and get "big" is annoying. I cant get "big". My genetics simply wont allow it. Even at 125 pounds I have stretch marks all over my body since my frame has always just been so tiny. I wish I could put on weight.

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