You are the one who explained everything and posted. I’m posting what Findom actually is and is not. Not once have you provided any legit info to dispute that. Btw... making things up as far as “your kinks” sounds exactly like you creating a mold to fit into that doesn’t actually exist. I mean, if you want to pursue being a Pro-Domme... then by all means go for it.

But I’m going to call out things as a learning POV for other subs who may not know the difference. Just because you feel the need to justify getting $ and gifts, doesn’t make that in itself an actual kink. Or something to reasonably negotiate. Unless you admit to potential subs you wish it to be more of a Pro situation. Telling ppl it is required to send gifts and money... does not equate to a legit kink. It just means you’ve found a way to find ppl to give you things. Nothing you are replying refutes that.

Perhaps you may want to re-evaluate the roles you want to be personally. A Pro who requires payment (tributes) to fulfill a paying subs need to give said tributes. And gives you reasonable cause to take gifts and money.

You could add Findom... but in it’s true sense (not payment, gifts, tributes). Meaning helping a sub get financially on track, savings, investments, etc. And using that as your Control kink. But again, use the term for its actual intended purposes there.

And Pro’s do have long term commitment with subs too if they choose. Not all Pro’s just do it for the money. But it is a way of letting subs know that $$ and gifts/tributes will play a role.