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I lost my virginity at 15 to an 18 year old.

LEGALLY, in the state I lived in, I could not consent (I don't think there were romeo/juliet laws there).

PERSONALLY, I did consent. I know you can't wrap your head around it. But I wanted it and I made efforts to get what I wanted. If afterwords, in the post-cum clarity I realized that I didn't want it as much as I did then to me it would be a regret, not rape (believe me, I've made that sort of regrettable choice even as an adult... sometimes you think some food looks good because you're really hungry but after you've eaten a bit you realize it's a bit gross).

Am I saying that all these situations involving a minor and an adult are personally consensual? NO!!!!! NONONO.

Am I advocating for more minor/adult relationships? NO!!!!

Do I agree that a person who is passed out or about to can not consent? YES!

This is such a minefield topic because there are hardliners like you who have only one stance on the matter. So defending it is walking a really fine line otherwise you yell pedo or rape apologist.

If I do MDMA and want to go down on a girl and she agrees, you don't get to walk up to me and tell me that I can't consent because I'm under the influence of a drug. Shit, some of the best sexual experiences I've ever had have been while under the influence of one thing or another. You can make up laws that punish my partner and declare that what happened wasn't consensual. You can have the law say I was raped. But that doesn't make it so. That doesn't revoke my ability to make a choice (this is what it's about, the ability to make an informed choice, which a passed out person can not do, which a retarded person can not do).

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