Thank you. The problem I had was I do have evidence, but I don't think it would ever be enough with the wrong people. I asked a friend today if they ever saw anything about me and my ex that seemed off and they said no. I know for a fact they were there when she shout at me for sitting by the window because she couldn't see where I was looking. All the times she flew into a rage because I mentioned a woman. And I showed them texts where she mentioned crying when I turned her down for sex. And all they could say is "I'm not taking sides, and I don't feel comfortable hearing such intimate details about your relationship".

The thing I keep trying to tell myself is "of course they aren't going to get it, at least not straight away. It took me years to see it for what it was"