For guys who didn’t have much success before, what did you do/change to start attracting women?

I shouldn't really answer, cause I am still unscuscesful, but maybe someone will have some more tips for me. I have already: - got a good haircut and grow a beard - bought better clothes and worked on my style - have better hygiene - hit the gym (no much gains yet)

I almost don't see any difference. The funny thing is, that as a teenager, I was not really thinking about my clothes, my hairs were messy, my hygiene was bad, and I was extremely skinny, but I was pretty successful with girls. They were even asking me out and stuff. Feels ridiculous, I am 27 now, never looked better, I am more confident (still rather shy, but it's a little better), but I just feel asexual in woman eyes. Other guys have some magic stories about girls smiling at them or checking them out. Sounds like sci-fi to me.

I kind of understand where this is coming from. When I was younger, I was quite popular, and also I was meeting new girls every month while partying or something. Now, I usually party with the same people. If I meet new people, they are guys or taken girls. I have no idea where to meet someone. I am introvert and shy as I said, so going alone to bars and asking girls for numbers seems to be some unpleasent vodoo to me.

Any advices for someone like me?

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