I’m still in the deciding stage, but pretty heavily leaning to the child free camp. My sister (30) just had a baby and I’m only 20 but for some reason it has meant the pressure has started coming from everywhere for me to have a baby. “I want to be an aunt too!” “I have a grandson, now I want a granddaughter!” “Blah blah deserves cousins!” Then, during a somewhat joking conversation w my mother where she’s pressuring me I say that I’m 20 and don’t want kids. She says that you can discuss this when you’re older and the biological clock is ticking (dear god). So I say discuss it with who??? And apparently she expects me to discuss it with her. Nope I’m out.

Also, the world has gone to shit and the only comfort I have is knowing that I may not have to endure the horribleness that’ll happen in 50-60 years w global warming and that, no way I’m bringing something into this world to experience it.