We literally met at a Kink/Sex/Swingers Club. My college friend took me to a "Dungeon 101" event after a string of bad Tinder/Bumble/App-of-the-day interactions. My SO and I were both new to the kink scene. During the "Exploratorium" part of the night there were several "stations" where experienced people in the scene did demos. There were whips, knives, elecro, tickling, vacuum-beds, and rope. My fiend introduced me to SO at the rope demo and we flirted for a bit, went our separate ways, and enjoyed the hedonistic pleasures of the night.

We kept running into one another at munches (aka dinner dates and vanilla events with other kinky people). After a few of those meetups and club events, and particularly charged play session, we decided to go on a date. The date was decidedly wholesome. We went out for burgers and saw "Solo". Two years later and things are fantastic.