Form 8843 should be filed separately since it is handled by a completely different department than the regular 1040NR.
Also remember to include:
This is all handled by the IRS service center in Ogden, UT by the Business International department. You can send it to Austin and they will forward it or you can send it directly:
Department of the Treasury
Internal Revenue Service Center
Attn: Business International
Ogden, UT 84201-0038
Their processing time for these requests are about 1 year right now so expect for quite a wait to get the refund, however since this could add up to quite a lot of money it is worth waiting for.