Finished my time in the military, went back home, tried the online dating thing. Met a "nice girl" who turned out to be a bit of a whore behind my back. A friend of mine was the one that spotted her out seeing another guy. I super-spied my way into her text messages and confirmed she had been seeing multiple guys. I confronted her about it, she said she would stop, but she didn't. Somehow we got back together a few weeks later and she apologized and said she was done doing that and wanted to be with me. I decided I didn't care, but that I would just "get mine" and whatever happens happens. I treated her pretty poorly during that time and she seemed to love me for it. I lost any remaining respect I had for her because of that.

Well, she informed me she had met someone else one night. I looked her straight in the face, shrugged, and said, "Aight, later." She didn't understand why I wasn't bothered. Kept trying to talk to me a few weeks later. Told her to go suck someone else's dick.

Well, after meeting 2 more girls like her online, I decided online dating is just for women seeking attention from every guy to sustain their self-esteem. I became bitter and started saying stuff without a filter. Girls loved me for my straight-forward conversations. It made them "feel relaxed" and "trusted me". So, I kept it up and here I am the negative-nancy boyfriend that doesn't care when we are 3 months into the relationship. "Bitch, you liked me the way I was day one! I change for no one!"