Found out my [28f] fiancée [28f] went to the middle east for prostitution each summer she was in college and I had no idea

Why are people ignoring that she's been lying and taking student loan money to buy shit despite having school paid off?

She's dishonest and willing to do anything for money. You trust this person who's been lying to you about finances so she can basically steal from you both?

Personally, it's not the prostitution that'd bother me. I'd rather my wife made some money fucking her exes instead of doing it for free. The fact she's lying for money to spend on herself while you're paying off your loans though should be a dealbreaker.

And how long would she have kept taking that money? Every month for how many years did she intend to collect for her loans if she wasn't caught?

You haven't even invested two years and she's been stealing from you. Forget the dishonesty about prostitution, I understand that on some level and it was technically in the past. The money though, that's her today. That is who she is as a person right now. A thief who steals from their spouse.

You do you but personally stealing has always been a deal breaker for me.

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