Found out my ex girlfriend is having sex.

I was with someone for 3 years pressured me for babies all the sudden I was just turned 20 at the time way too young for me to get baby up and even now till thus day I still don't want kids in last year of the 3 dumped me by cheating on me getting some random woman pregnant and she wanted to meet me & be my friend even when it happened to be honest couldn't care about her. Later on 6 months after breaking up I heard just didn't want to be with me fair enough.

6 months will be raw as for awhile even up to a year or more but you do learn to deal with it and let your self let go and move on.

Eventually you realised the break up was the best it may not seem like now as it feels like been slapped in the chest a thousand times in the long run even years later you may look back think thanks for the lesson and for the letting me go find something better.

Took me a year and half to let someone in eventually giving me another go at love accepted me for my faults and flaws. They were okay with the fact I didn't want kids ever.

I wish you the best also gets some ice cream you know why cause you deserve it and your in pain that's okay. As an old saying says I believe in it now compared to 7 years ago my younger self didn't, time does heal wounds if you let your self go through the grief and open your self to finding someone worthy who won't treat you like garbage to throw you away it does get better.

You deserve better.

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