Have you found true love over 35?

Yes I met my husband when I was 36. And after years of miserable dating experiences around age 32 I decided that I would rather be alone for the rest of my life then be unhappy in a bad relationship. I made peace with that and then I built my life, on being alone and it was great and after that I met him. That’s my advice. Don’t be unhappy life is too short. It is better to be alone and be happy, you can travel, you can find a job that you love, I volunteered with wounded soldiers at a military hospital for five years. I did Big Brothers Big Sisters. I went on tons of online dates, I did not just sit at home, but I decided I was okay just being me, I was happy and then I did find love. But if I did not I would have still been okay. If you really want a family, you can adopt, or you can get IVF. I have so many friends that got married to someone they did Not love and did not make them happy just to have a kid and are now either divorced and miserable or married and miserable.

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