It seems so many people here have never known anybody who hugs a little longer or puts their hands on their shoulders or they themselves don't hug people long or do affectionate things is ridiculous. When I hug people I hug them for a long time too. To base someone's character on videos that have been edited to look a certain way is not good enough. If someone's family and friends and community stand by the person's character and who they are, based on decades -- that's a pretty telling sign. People always want to believe someone is bad because they can't just look at someone and believe that they are good. It's the human way especially with technology. People want to dig deeper and find a reason to prove someone's an asshole or someone's evil or someone's gross instead of just looking at someone and seeing good.