I would argue it is a relevant question, because I get the impression that you are basing your perception and argument of "this being an edgy teenager shit joke name" on is fundamentally linked to that question. You compartmentalizing your argument to suit your needs is dishonest in nature.

Given the opportunity to change my name to one of those names instead of sit a four day ban is something I will gladly do... because again I am arguing that this name can be perceived differently but if the overwhelming majority of the community would rather not have that conversation, then who am I to argue?

If you don't want to answer my question then fine - I can't force someone to do something over the internet. What I will ask you to do is review other server resident's comments and opinions because it will be interesting to see if other people are willing to see my point of view. Hopefully by doing this you can also "grow up and move on" by expanding your worldview that not everyone sees things the same way you do...