Friday - quick advice

Well, I asked him last night and he said all of his previous partners got off from penetration alone, which like knowing at least seven women he’s slept with, seems unlikely, but whatever. Often, before, when I was hooking up with someone new I wouldn’t even put in the time or effort to communicate to them how to make me orgasm if they didn’t already know how (most did though, if they put in the effort.)

It was kind of a hard conversation unfortunately, although I tried to be really gentle and kind. This stuff is just kind of fraught I guess? Thinking about lending him that book “She Comes First” (I do not like the title but the book itself is pretty informative)

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