usually i wouldn’t have to think about it because most guys i’ve experienced something like this would straight up say things like, “you make me horny” or “what if i asked you for nudes”

this guy (idk if it’s how he frames his wording or what) genuinely had me believing that he had a dream, feels guilty about the fact that it turns him on and doesn’t want it to, and chose to ask me because he doesn’t want other people knowing about the dream. he kept calling his gf perfect and hasn’t actually outright asked me for anything but once he brought up the topic of nudes and asked me about my love life is when i turned highly suspicious of him having hidden motives behind his words