Friend acting like we were never that close

No I do have a lot of friends and a lot of them are closer now since she has been ignoring me which is why I wanted to reconnect with her, because we have always said we will actively choose to stay close so I didn't want to make it seem like I was abandoning her to go off with other people. And it's also why I don't know if I want to just catch up with her monthly, because I barely have enough time to see the people who ARE there for me and DO answer me when I need them and don't just ignore me until it's convenient to them or until they have a problem.

also it isn't just to do with the amount she speaks to me because I even said it's okay if we don't talk all the time because we are both busy, calling each other best friends is more just a promise that we'll always make some effort and I was still willing to make an effort for her and she acted like we never said that and I was being weird but we did say that so it was very invalidating

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