Friend has been lying about himself for 6 years.

Right. Again this is more of him thinking he can buy a girls love and not a fetish thing. I failed at representing the situation clearly. Its hard to do when trying to avoid any specific details. Also I failed at communicating my issue with it. Hes a grown man he can spend or send his money on whatever to whomever its not my concern- my concern was how without losing a good friend how can I deal with him lying about who he truly is as a person (IE not independent. Not happy. Not financially smart. His opinions on things that he claims to have but his actions show the opposite). I've learned that without giving up identifying specific details people are going to look at this as I'm some nosey person judging my friends "fetish" which is 100000 miles from the truth. I appreciate you taking time to reply though. Thank you.

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