friend is butt-hurt that I didn't want to wife her up just because we hookedup, should I just leave her alone?

Alright everybody, I went ahead and texted her saying I hope she is doing well during the quarantine and I asked her if everything was cool between us and why she was avoiding me the last few times I saw her.

she just responded, "Hey [Tom] thanks for the text. I'm doing well. To be honest, I didn't think you were serious about genuinely wanting to be friends based on the way you handled things after we hookedup. It seemed to me like you could not reject me fast enough, and couldn't even wait until I saw you that Monday to tell me in person. it made me feel like you were embarrassed or repulsed by me, so I felt like crap. I was in disbelief that you were being serious about being friends and it almost seemed like you were making fun of me. Maybe I misinterpreted it but that's just how I interpreted it. I am sorry if if you think I was being rude, but I just couldn't handle seeing you yet and I didn't know what to do so it was easier for me to just avoid dealing with you. So I'm sorry if that came off rude. Maybe in the future we can be friends again, but don't force it. Take care."

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