If you aren't capable of reading me saying that behavior is disgusting (which I wrote multiple times in each of my 4 or 5 comments here), or understanding I meant "just a creepy horny dude" meaning rather than being a creepy horny emotional manipulator like the OP was claiming without any evidence that he was, then it's impossible to have a conversation with you.

Anyone without bias, and with common sense would know I wasn't taking the abusers side. For the 100th time, his behavior is DISGUSTING, but it's wrong to paint him as someone who gets pleasure from making the girl fear for her safety as OP was saying. My sister was raped over the course of 3 years and when she finally came out and said so, the school counselor wouldn't believe her because my sister exaggerated some of the details (she didn't purposely do that tho). That's why I'm saying when you have a disgusting creep, putting words in their mouth only hurts your defense against them and makes people think "oh well they never said that? I wonder if they said or did anything that person is claiming?"

See why I'm so involved with these comments? I've seen it happen to my little sister and I feel sick even writing this. I'm so amazed I have to spell this all out in detail for you to understand I wasn't supporting this fuck up's sexual harassment.