Friend spelt woth my wife update.

If this was exceptional case with his wife, I'd suspect that she might have been drugged and would reconsider the relationship.

Otherwise if she was drinking, no matter the pain she endured because of rape (or not), this kind of behaviour in a relationship is a big no no. She got drunk by her consent, nobody forced her to drink that much, as I understood. That responsibility of drinking to a dead end cannot be taken off.

I know several women who are intentionally getting drunk to waive responsibility of having sex with (a) guy(s) and does it repeatedly (getting drunk). But if she really says that she drunk a lot, for me it would be a dead end, no matter if she had sex/being raped or not.

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