Friendly reminder - this subreddit is for all BDSM content. If you don't like some of the stuff posted here you are welcome to leave.

I'm using extreme examples to point out the dangers of not considering edge cases when you throw out an absolutist stance like "this subreddit is for all BDSM content" and just leave it at that.

You can't expect everyone else to share your definition of what passes as "common sense". The fact you needed to make this post at all clearly shows there are already enough people frequenting this place who don't share your understanding of common sense for that to be a problem.

I'm not even saying you're wrong to accept male subs or heavy women or what have you. But I am pointing out that you can't expect the notion of shared common sense to be the arbiter of what is and isn't acceptable BDSM content when on the other hand your explicit stance seems to be that all BDSM content is acceptable. That's just a drama shitstorm of user revolts and toxicity waiting to happen down the line. You're free to do what you want, but it's better in my opinion to at least consider the hypotheticals now, rather than leave it until you're facing an actual problem.

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