Friends with kids asking for free babysitting

I’m a single father of 2 boys, Now legally adults my ex left 8 years ago and have been raising them ever since on my own. I know the struggle when it comes to finding a baby sitter for purposes such as work. But at this time everyone should be at home, and if that means you’re at home with your kids, no matter what age, you make the best of it. If you’re kids don’t behave that’s on you, you didn’t instill good behavior. I can understand if they are still learning proper behavior, but note if you teach it while they are young, they will understand when they are older. I’m all for child free, which is why I joined this sub in the first place. I chose to have kids and don’t regret any of it. I’ve always been thoughtful of peoples time and if they would like to watch my kids they would volunteer, if not, no problem. I’ve always been happy spending time with my kids. Now my kids are adults that still live at home and they are being helpful for the most part. It’s great to have some extra help. I’m able to have conference calls and take care of all my responsibilities. Sorry to get off topic, but thought I’d share my thoughts as a parent and hope as a child free person you can pass on some insights and maybe it could help you.

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