You're smart enough to know what you get out of it won't make you sound good at all, so you keep your mouth shut.

I once read a husband on here explain that it's like having this great car that you're so proud of, everything about it, and so you want your buddies to drive it and admire it too. The problem with that analogy is the realization that basically this person is no more than an object to you and that every other guy's admiration and desire to drive this object validates your ego, because you own it and they're only taking it out for a spin.

Yes, down vote me, but I've talked to enough of you guys to know it's true. It's an ego trip. It fills your ego knowing that guys want to fuck your wife. It has nothing at all to do with her pleasure --- not really --- it's just validating that you picked a hot woman that other men want.

And no woman wants to hear that. Don't ever say it. Because it's really not something to be proud of in the first place.