Fuck technicality, I'm just calling myself a lesbian.

I've only ever been attracted to two men who were presenting as such at the time. Three if you count a trans guy before either of us knew he was trans but I still find him vaguely attractive. Never dated a man. Perhaps it's inaccurate to say I'm a lesbian because of it but saying I'm bi while technically more correct seems misleading. I've met more literal convicted murderers than I have men I'm attracted to. It's just so unlikely. And even then the two cis men I was attracted to the attraction was far smaller than women I've been attracted to. Barely enough to notice. And even then it was despite their bodies, not in part because of them. Dicks are attractive enough but being attached to men is a turnoff. Hence why I only consider myself bisexual by technicality.

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