Ghost him, ghost every future guy and get your life together first. You’re right in your post, you are immature. You say you’re raising 2 kids, yet you haven’t shown a single word of care about them. You’re not taking guys to your apartment because they judge you, and not because what your kids would think or how it would affect them? Oh right seeing their mom get home in the middle of the night high, after just getting f-ed in a car must be awesome! If my mom had been like this, i would have wished i rather had no mother at all. Has it crossed your mind that maybe they judge you based on how you treat your family? But given your lifestyle, only meeting up with guys like this is no wonder. Also sucking and f-ing random strangers is the perfect way to preserve your family! Who cares about std or potential dangers when you can have a joint and some sexy time right? Not that kids are a responsibility or anything… i honestly hope this is just a fake post, otherwise i feel truly sorry for your kids! Of course, dating is fine. Noone has to live in celibacy just because they have kids. Just not in a reckless way as you are doing. So my advice is to leave dating behind, get your life together, then once you can make responsible decisions, only then try dating again. And yes, for everyone’s sake you should ghost this guy.