I fucking hate to have a small dick. It feels like everyone is out of my league

I’m not sure when the whole “big dick energy” thing started, but I’ve never said it (aside from typing it just now) or conversed with anyone who has, and I never think about it except for a brief moment when I happen to scroll by it, and then I disregard it anyway. It’s just another phrase floating amongst the sea of detritus that is the internets.

A lot of people treat their 20’s as a time to explore, and during that time, you can find out what works for you sexually. It seems people are coming around to being more open sexually anyway. I know some lovely and capable people with smaller penises. You can do this, but you won’t know until you try. Most people don’t end up with the first person they have sex with anyway so don’t put too much pressure on yourself for the first time. It doesn’t have to be horrible; my first time was great.

Go for it, be safe, and have fun with consenting partners. You’ll find your groove. Years pass by a lot quicker as you get older. I’m only in my late 20’s and I feel like they flew by, so go ahead and create some memorable experiences for yourself.

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