First off, how is he rug sweeping?

He is describing a situation in which he needs answers which his girlfriend has, but will not provide.

As I already explained, rather clearly, in the beginning of this thread, the only leverage he has now is the ever shrinking guilt his girlfriend feels. He is posting here now, because that is not enough motivation for her to even start with he basics.

That's because he has no leverage to demand answers.

The only leverage he has is the threat of his absence from the relationship. He explicitly indicated, however, that he does not welcome advice which might result in him acquiring the leverage he needs for any, even a slim, chance of a successful R with a safe partner.

This is sweeping the problem, and the solution, under the rug.

The result will most likely be a repeat performance.

He should be informed of this, and he has been.

This concludes the the length to which I will explain myself, and my view of the situation to a person who's principal contribution to the conversation has been to call me names, tell me to stop helping, and to leave the community.