FWB with coworker...not sure how often to message him to hang out without appearing easy or infatuated

That being said, the “taking you to lunch” thing sounds like a suggested date (taking it to the next level, but testing the waters by seeing if you’re sexually compatible) and it was up to you to confirm you were interested in that. When you didn’t, he likely thought backing off was the best idea rather than potentially alienating you and demolishing what you both said this was at the beginning.

You're probably right. Maybe he was respecting my space because he suggested taking me to lunch and I responded jokingly (with his dick in my ass) so I don't get a choice in this matter? Because I kind of like the dom feeling I guess? I dunno ugh. And he might have just been trying to be respectful and wait for me to bring it up again.

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