I've told a few partners about preeeetty much everything. Some of it's irrelevant shit I would never actually want to do, just my porn habits. But I think I've told at least one partner about every kink I have a desire to act out. I've tried most of them with a partner at this point. The partners I pick are chill and/or on board with them, but I'm always hesitant to tell new partners because of fearing judgment. It helps that I'm into shame and fear I suppose :P

I think a lot of kinks that are actually dangerous are oddly mainstream (choking) while others that are weirder on the surface but harmless are viewed as much more taboo.

If a partner says something negative about your body, can you ever totally put it out of your mind forever?