You hit the nail on the head. I'm an extremely accommodating person who wants the best for others before myself and that may be part of the problem.

He is miserable in his current job (but that's nothing new). He is definitely burnt out, especially with the Karen's and everyone giving him shit about masks and social distancing.

But with all this said, we were always each other's outlet and now it's not the same. He's distant with certain things. Like he'll call me about small crap at work to vent, but nothing deep. And I feel like it's something deeper going on.

I've been here through so much, things that should've destroyed us. I ask him all the time what's going on and how he's feeling, but it all just seems superficial. I don't don't get it.