Gaming as a turn off

Every activity has its own stigma/stereotypes, and the one associated with gaming culture in the general public is very negative (and personally, as a huge Nintendo fan all my life, I understand why).

I’d rather someone value me for other qualities that promote more positive stereotypes or lifestyle choices. For example, sure, cooks/someone who enjoys cooking can be jerks/pedantic, but I believe that interest can project a value in health, as well as outdoor activities. It also helps show variety.

I think having a variety of interests is the most important thing. Personally, I’d rather find someone who values me for all my qualities and skills, and let gaming be the cherry on top. Like “watching movies/listening to music”, I think activities like that can go either way, but there’s so much more I would want in a partner personally that I want to project values I want in a partner on my profile. I don’t mind playing Mario alone, and I’d love to introduce a non-gamer to it, but if it’s not their thing, I’m not gonna shove it down their throat.

/r/Bumble Thread