Gaybros who have been approached by poly couples to date, how does that make you feel?

Honestly, most poly guys I've tried to date really just wanted a third for sex. Like, a lot of guys say they're poly, but they're really just horny.

Gonna be honest, it made me feel extra dehumanized and shit.

Entering such a relationship when the first two are already established means you start off as a third wheel. Few are actually willing to overcome that and let you in as an equal. They will still be each other's favorite and you're just the other guy.

Can you handle that? Being 2nd to someone else? Third wheeling on dates? Or getting reduced to just being their booty call if it comes to that?

Tread carefully, that's all I can say.

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