Respectful dialogue is possible, and hopefully reasonable compromise is too.
In my original post, I wrote the following:
Here are some of the opinions I’ve developed: Women have every right to be skeptical of any male born person or any male appearing in a public female sex segregated space. This is a natural instinct, and trans advocates are asking women to completely disregard that instinct in the name of progressivism. Women should have the right the challenge any male born/male appearing in any public sex segregated space. PRIVATELY, Women should have the right to assemble and associate in any manner they so choose, including wbw and without protests from male borns and especially from non-transsexual male borns. Camp Trans, I’m looking at you.

For clarification, by ‘privately,’ I meant not in public accommodations, but rather a private event (MWMF for example). I think with public accommodations it’s always going to be more complicated. In these spaces, women are of course entitled to be suspicious of any male born person, and should be supported to challenge a male born person or reach out for a third party such as security, administration, etc. to deal with the situation.

The question remains though, what would we do with such a person who’s a fully committed transsexual and women don’t feel comfortable around them. I don’t have a good answer. I’m not sure there is a good answer. That’s part of why I’m here to bounce off some ideas and maybe together we can work something out. It seems a bit harsh to a send a post-op trans to men’s sex segregated space, but it’s also perfectly understandable that some women will not feel comfortable around a fully committed trans.
Maybe a private stall or private shower within the women’s facility to reduce vulnerability. Ideally, a small, separate trans/neutral facility separate from the men’s or women’s is probably the best answer, and should be encouraged in new construction and remodeling projects, but that doesn’t address existing facilities, and modifying them may be prohibitively expensive.

Your point about practically challenging male borns of any type is also true. Maybe some system can be devised to methodically manage these situations. This is more viable in the larger facility like a prison, shelter, etc. where these issues are probably more important (women have limited or no options). Whatever solution we come up with will probably never be perfect.

I totally agree with you regarding the current situation. Together we should the oppose the complete free-for-all that is being promoted by radical trans activists.