If you're attracted to someone without seeing them naked, seeing them naked shouldn't change that. For some people It's due to internalized lgbtphobia that people are against being with someone who was born as the same biological sex as themself.

It is fine to not be attracted to someone because they are not the gender you are attracted to. If they identify as the gender you prefer and you are attracted to them, no other factors should be considered besides having consent and safe sex.

Skin is skin. Penis and vagina are the same parts just look different. Gender is different because it is our spirit.

If someone has the gender you prefer and you are attracted to them, but they do not have the anatomy you prefer. I think it makes you transphobic and sexist to change your conduct with that person.

Transphobia is not liking someone because they are trans, even though you are attracted to them. Anatomy is irrelevant tbh. I thought a lot about this. And some people like to discriminate their partners based on anatomy, but that's not right. It's literally just skin in a different form and people who don't see it that way are weakminded.

But some people are weak minded, and I can't change that. This is just how I feel.