Gender is definitely one thing that we're having re-evaluate now that we're aware of being a system of one kind or another.

There seem to be about 4 of us, and while we're all trans and have been out for years only 3 of us are binary-identified women. One is nonbinary and frankly has way less dysphoria in certain areas than the others, which actually explains a lot about some events in the past. We have an orchi coming up that everyone is on board with for medical purposes, but we're going to have to reconsider whether full SRS is something everyone is ok with or not.

It kind of really disturbs the binary ladies in the system that one of us is nonbinary, and it's probably going to be something we need to work through(probably with the help of our therapist).