Getting annoyed

Not defending them, but it can be stressful for the guys too. It really sucks when you have spent six months getting told to fuck off and then you have potential and then your wife says, no I liked the other one better. "WELL, THE OTHER ONE IS NOT A FUCKING OPTION WTF"

This is a difference in Men and Womens online dating experiences. Women are used to having options, men understand reality of many rejections. Men of course unfortunately are willing to just easily throw their wives to the curb.

Don't let it stress you, just have fun with it. Guys can be fun, just talk to guys that are interesting and inform them you want to speak with the wife, she is going to give you the main vibe of the couples' interest. If she doesn't want to talk then they are having issues in moving forward.

Just keep in mind married women interested in a bi experience aren't necessarily interested in trying to pick up women or figuring out how to date them.

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