I worry that this is me sometimes. I started healing for the first time this exp and now im high rio and raiding mythic. I just started tanking for the first time on an alt and I'm pulling as if i was the healer. What i fear is that some healers are even newer than me to the game and are struggling but arent saying.

My complaint is to the dps who will consistently pull and tell me im not fast enough. This means if i don't pull fast, we will wipe and itll make the healers job harder. If any of us tanks are toxic please be aware it may be because we are just so used to taking it ourselves.

I think the problem is dps tell tank hes too slow -> tank pulls faster and faster -> healer cant keep up