A lot of women in my experience get a lot of men that are sketchy as fuck. So in my opinion sometimes maybe means they'd like to get to know you better as well.
I've met several women that I didn't get to go on a date with for a few months, once they were more comfortable with me.
Don't judge things so negatively. Just roll with it and dating goes a lot easier. People have their own lives too. Their #1 priority isn't always dating either, especially after months and years of shitty dates.
Asking to "hang out" means you just want to fuck too. Asking women to go out on a date and do something specific has a hell of a lot better results.
It's probably what you're doing if you're continually having this issue. But okay to make it about them.