Yes I feel the same way. I'm actually in the same exact situation. I'm about to start uni. Maybe I will move to another city or go travelling.

I hooked up with people because I thought I was missing out on something but I'm also really in between wanting a relationship after watching a movie and just being alone because I'm also fine with that.

I'm just sick of having endless dates that lead to nothing and having that whole getting to know the basics about a person phase.

Many people say you have to figure out what you want before you start dating but I call bs on that. Maybe i will just go on a date and hook up with them maybe after that hook up i will realise i genuinely like him...