My ex believes I cheated. Our marriage was over IMO *. Sometime during those 2ish weeks I was sleeping on the couch preparing to move out I got way too drunk and had the most PG-rated makeout session of my life with some guy. Soon to be ex-husband found out a while later and blames that as the entire reason for our divorce. Over 1.5 years later he *still sends me harassing texts/emails about me being a cheater, how could I cheat on him, how could I ruin our marriage with infidelity as if that was the only reason we aren't together now.

**I put up with shit and tried my best to make it work for almost 10 years. But after my dad died and he was actually fucking mean and picked a fight about chores not being done I stopped believing our relationship was worth salvaging. Twice in our 1.5 year marriage he threatened me with divorce during an argument and I told him the next time he did it that was exactly what was going to happen. The day he did I started sleeping on the couch and looking for an apartment. I don't idly threaten people and I was very clear that I was done with the relationship. I "cheated" in his opinion because in his words he, "wasn't really going to file for divorce! I was just saying that so I would win the argument!". I can't change that he feels betrayed and is the victim of adultery now rather than one-half of a relationship that was miserable and is now over.