It means that she doesn’t feel like you’ll respect her boundaries when she says no without being pouty/cold/petulant (this is really unattractive btw, what woman wants to make up with a person acting like a baby?).

If she is used to having to fawn over people (like part of fight/flight/fawn/freeze stress responses) she’ll be more likely to blame herself for your coldness. If you let her do this you’re a cunt, because it’s fucked up to guilt people into sexual situations and abusive af.

If she’s not that type of stress responder, she’ll realize that it’s not her obligation to give you what you want in order to prevent your mild temper tantrums when she doesn’t want the same. It’s gross to cold shoulder someone when you don’t get the sexual response you want, if you still plan on pursuing them. You either say, 1) hey we aren’t compatible I’m going to move on, or 2) oh, sorry I thought you’d be into that, was I moving too fast? And respect her answer without pushing boundaries.

If you want to salvage this, say “I have no right to get mad because someone doesn’t want to kiss me. No matter how hot I am lol. I guess that I was just a little hurt and confused, maybe felt a bit rejected, because I realized that I must have misread the situation. I thought that we were both wanting to kiss, I must have been wrong. How do you feel about last night?” This way it also forces her to give a more honest response and some clarity about how she feels about you. Less games, you can’t save this situation with a game.