super cool. here’s my two cents on this. I broke up with a girl before i knew wasn’t my type and i seriously never looked back. Sometimes i’d miss her, and I may have attempted to get back with her but she moved on with another dude. She was cool so i would’ve been open to it but with their relationship at hand it wasn’t worth it, and i never felt bad cuz i knew it wasn’t what i wanted forever.

On the other hand here we did get along really well, even though i has certain things unrelated to her personality, rather more circumstances in life that caused me to want to breakup. The sheer strength of our bond like hit me like a ton of bricks and made me reflect on like the true intensity of the relationships. I mean we really truly discussed like getting married. And we’ve known each other a long time before being together. So like I think depending on the dynamic the behavioral pattern will change. But knowing the sheer level of love she had for me, and the intensity of my remorse i would not be surprise if time seriously softens that perspective, and since we will be no contact cuz i literally have no choice and i respect her deductions, time will take its toll. It’s much easier to “stay friends” for a girl. I think when you really cut contact with someone, the emotions can really begin to take over and that can elicit a final change. In my opinion though, once a relationship has been tried again, if it fails it probably won’t return, unless it was many many years long