Girl friend is against abortion even though she agreed.

Well to begin, the title of this is pretty frustrating. It's obvious by explaining how careful you were and the title alone that you think we should agree with you, that she should not have changed her mind and she should share your fears and should have listened to you and been more careful. But that validation really doesn't matter either way. It's about a human life. And you can't imagine the weight of being in the position of carrying that life and deciding it's fate. There are fears and concerns, but better people have come from worse and vice versa. All the logical reasoning cannot trump that kind of a decision. There's really nothing you can do. I don't really know what else to say because I don't understand much of the point of this post, I guess maybe just trying to figure out who's right and who's wrong? It's not that simple, and it's kind of bigger than that now. Just do what you can to keep yourself in check, and you will be okay. A lot can change.

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