Why call attention to it? Should have gamed someone else - jealousy and options.
The bar is huge so I doubt she would've even noticed. She never saw me speak to the three other girls I approached. Also the potential targets were limited, since it was very late and most people had already gone home. Maybe I should've spit game at her mother lol.
It is NOT about your hair. The girl found a weakness though - and she did it well. You're here asking us to tell you that your hair is ok because some girl criticised it. SHE IS RIGHT.... you are insecure about your hair. Christ, how is this not obvious to you?
I don't really care about my hair, it's not even that bad and it never even crossed my mind until she mentioned it. That's why I was so confused. I have no idea why she chose to target my hair, I didn't make a single comment about it or hint that I was insecure about it. And I really didn't expect my god damn hair to be the only thing standing between me and getting laid (though it was probably just the first random excuse she thought of).
It was a SHIT TEST. It makes no logical sense because it's a TEST not the truth. Next time say "I'm not interested in you either" and then keep talking like nothing happened. Don't fall into her frame of you chasing her while she shows you disinterest and YOU CARE.
I agree that it was probably a shit-test, but it was pretty brutal to discard me for failing merely one shit-test. Never had that happen before. I might have to do some research on passing shit-tests, I'm a bit rusty. I think being on ecstasy made it a bit harder too.
Oh who cares, it's just one girl.
One more girl than I have at the moment! I got the vibe that she was a fun girl and down for whatever, so I was very interested. If I have another opportunity with her then I'll go for it, and make sure I'm mindful of any shit tests. However, the bartender chick (or any other HB8+ I haven't approached yet) will be a higher priority. But I may as well go for all of them unless it becomes obvious they are a waste of time.